Guardianship Stories

The Reunion

Posted by inez on August 24, 2010 at 6:22 pm

Ann was visiting one of her favorite guardianship clients, when she decided to ask, “What would you like more than anything in the world?  Mary said, “I’d like to see my sister once more before I die.”  Working this out was a challenge since her sister lived in a nursing home several hours away and [...]

Piccadilly

Posted by inez on August 12, 2010 at 5:16 pm

You could barely see her house from the road.  She had not eaten a real meal in years.  Her plumbing didn’t work.  It had been several years since she had been able to cook or bathe.  She was afraid to let anyone know she needed help so she withdrew inside her house and little problems [...]

They Won’t Know

Posted by inez on July 22, 2010 at 2:37 am

We told one of our elderly guardianship clients that we never show anyone their pictures to protect them and to insure confidentiality. She gave us this picture and said, “Show  this.  No one will know it’s me.” //

In a Shed behind his House

Posted by inez on July 12, 2010 at 8:33 pm

He was a vet. His family had locked him in a shed behind his house for years.  He might have died in that shed, but one of his family members got mad at him and split his head open with a hoe.  The family took him to the emergency room. Police told us later they [...]

One Thousand Dollars for Lunch

Posted by inez on July 5, 2010 at 4:27 am

I received a call from Adult Protective Services in a neighboring county. “I know you don’t serve our county, but we have an elderly lady who is starving to death. There is no one else to take care of her. I’ll understand if you can’t help.”

Saving for a Rainy Day

Posted by inez on July 5, 2010 at 4:25 am

In our first year at Friends for Life, we were asked to be the legal guardian for a man who had been found unconscious on a railroad track. He was living in a shed about the size of my office (which was pretty tiny).